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Nov 02
in Tonga 1 comments

Trying not to spill my guts…and an amazing privilege…

Under the meandering cover of the Milky Way, with phosphorescence spraying from the hull of the small dingy and an intermittent scanning pass from a headlamp to ensure we didn’t hit any other boats whose own intermittent use of their headlamp was less than ours… I held my stomach ensuring the bulge that was protruding a little from between my ribs and navel was held in place by my pressing hand … making sure I kept my guts in!

We walked up a little hill from the “Old Harbour” alongside barking dogs and scurrying little piglets and were met by a wonderful Australian Doctor who had been working and living in Tonga for about a year.

We were welcomed over Duplo construction toys and buckets of play-dough, and I lay on the lounge-room couch with gentle hands palpating a lump in my tummy… and was told I had a hernia.

“No need to go home early…but just be careful”…. So I stayed another week or so…with many ‘guts’ jokes… “Don’t spill your guts”… “no guts no glory”… you get the idea!… and although my activities were curtailed somewhat, I was really looked after by everyone. Thank you so much.

What a privilege it was for me to be able to spend the time in Tonga swimming with the Whales with my friends.

So today I am off for surgery to repair my little split…  which needs to be sewn up. I’m not fond of surgery as those who have followed my Blog over the years know… but this time – things will flow smoothly and I will heal really well and be back to my active self in the New Year. I must take things carefully for the next 4 weeks with a maximum of 2kg that I am allowed to lift, and no squatting or reaching up…no beautiful Leica!!! 🙁 but my Canon G16 will come in handy ….. then the next 4 weeks a little more active… and then another month and I should be back swimming, running and dancing and being able to lift my Leica again!!! woo hoo!!

Until then, I will have a time of healing in which there will be a time for developing self-awareness…. reflection… immersing myself in my images… books… and dreams.

Today I have enjoyed nurturing myself reflecting on my time in Tonga and swimming with the whales and have enjoyed my memories; yet more than that have connected with such excitement and a knowing within myself as I have been playing with my images and creating them into Black and White…so until my next post… enjoy the small selection of my images I have put together in a small video… Grooving and Skanking with the Whales in Tonga!. Click to view Full Screen..even though only low res images- you will get the idea of Skanking with the whales in Tonga!!!

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I am a Journeywoman. I live my life as an explorer. An adventurer. An Observer. An Artist. There is no differentiation between how I live my life and the art that is an expression of it. It is through my experience adventuring the unknown, that I learn more about myself. My aim through this connection is to live where my expression is fully in alignment with the essence of who I am. “In the field of Fine-Art Photography, Julie stands apart from others with the way she sees the world and expresses her connection within it. Julie Stephenson’s photographs are sublime. Her work is an expression of her deep connection; and a gift to the world.”

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  1. Aileen Hubbard
    April 14, 2015

    Hi Dear Julie
    I am hoping you made a good recovery and back to normal after you hernia operation.
    Loving all your whale photography.

    Cheers and Hugs
    Aileen


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2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
  • Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. 

I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
  • So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • *hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
  • There was a discussion! :) Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
  • Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
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Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her:

1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think.
Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day.

2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her: 1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think. Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day. 2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed. You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth. Some people won’t understand your choices. Make them anyway. 3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to. You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness. And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful. Stress causes illness. 4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing. Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it!  Learn to say NO… and YES! 5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful. You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built. And still think: I want something different. Both can be true. 6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are. I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere. Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth. There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things. Don’t lose her. Hold her close. 7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.” Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot. And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining! Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future. It’s happening right now. My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided.  At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder. I wish I’d trusted myself sooner. Protected my peace sooner. Cared for myself sooner.  Respected myself sooner.  So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

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Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? 

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Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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𝐌𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚 𝐀𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭 | 𝐇𝐞𝐢𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐦 𝐓𝐞𝐱𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬 Luxury Handwoven Blankets 🌏Stories from life & global adventures 🧩Woven into unique collector pieces Explore ⬇️
  • If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her:

1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think.
Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day.

2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
  • Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. 

I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
  • So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • *hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
  • There was a discussion! :) Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
  • Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
  • Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? 

Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
  • If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
View on Instagram
If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her:

1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think.
Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day.

2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her: 1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think. Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day. 2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed. You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth. Some people won’t understand your choices. Make them anyway. 3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to. You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness. And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful. Stress causes illness. 4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing. Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it!  Learn to say NO… and YES! 5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful. You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built. And still think: I want something different. Both can be true. 6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are. I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere. Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth. There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things. Don’t lose her. Hold her close. 7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.” Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot. And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining! Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future. It’s happening right now. My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided.  At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder. I wish I’d trusted myself sooner. Protected my peace sooner. Cared for myself sooner.  Respected myself sooner.  So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. 

I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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*hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
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*hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
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There was a discussion! :) Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
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There was a discussion! 🙂 Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
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Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
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Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
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Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? 

Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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