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Really looking at your list – Completing, crossing off and creating!

STEP 4

Ok…you have;

Step 1 – Created your list. Then Step 2 – worked out your Creative or Personal Mission. Then Step 3 – determined your Goals. Now is the fun bit!!

Have a look at your list and for every item, work out whether if completing that thing on your list actually serves any of your goals. If the thing on your list doesn’t serve any of your goals… reassess whether you need to adjust your goals in case you missed something…. or cross the thing off your list! Ask yourself why you are doing it or want to do it – if it doesn’t serve you!

Now you have sorted through your list and determined that everything on it will actually help you achieve your goals… organise them either with a coloured marker or in your doc. programme into things which need to be done in the short or long term… short being days/weeks… and long usually months/years.

Then prioritise them. Put them  in order from the ones you can actually start in the next few hours!!!! Each morning take a few minutes to look at your short term list and work out which ones are a priority, and start them and schedule when you are going to do them. Have a mixture of things which can be completed quickly and ones which you can set in motion but take a little longer to complete.

Prioritise your long term items as well….Start the bigger and longer term projects wholeheartedly – but see if you can break down those things on your list into smaller more achievable elements – so you don’t keep putting it off because it seems daunting. For example – if you have on your list ….. “get my book going”… break that down to  – select images for book; select poems for book; research Blurb; research publishers; research paper types; research font types…etc. Each of those items is able to be achieved in smaller batches of time and progress can be clearly seen to be made, rather than being daunted by not knowing where to start and having an overwhelming task ahead of you.

Don’t also forget the possibility that you can delegate.  You don’t always have to physically do everything on your list yourself. You are the manager of the list – nowhere is there a code which says that you have to do everything yourself!

Be disciplined and focussed, but also be flexible. If you need a bit of a boost so that you feel like you need to achieve something … go to your list and pick 3 or 4 things which can be done fairly effortlessly and in a short time frame. Get the niggly little things out of the way. And the CROSS THEM OFF!!!


So…. now you have some strategies to complete things on your list. Everything you do needs to serve you….. serving meeting your goals and ultimately your Mission; either Creatively if that is your focus for this exercise…or if you have taken a broader view.. then your Life’s Mission.

As you cross the things of your list…..as you complete things… you now have space to open up to the new!!!  Keep revising your Goals, because as you achieve the things on your list – you will all of a sudden realise that you will be achieving some of your Goals also. This opens the way for you to create and develop new Goals… and wonderful experiences that you never thought you had the space for in your life before.

Give it try. Give these 4 steps a go…. it WILL make a big difference in your life!

 

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I am a Journeywoman. I live my life as an explorer. An adventurer. An Observer. An Artist. There is no differentiation between how I live my life and the art that is an expression of it. It is through my experience adventuring the unknown, that I learn more about myself. My aim through this connection is to live where my expression is fully in alignment with the essence of who I am. “In the field of Fine-Art Photography, Julie stands apart from others with the way she sees the world and expresses her connection within it. Julie Stephenson’s photographs are sublime. Her work is an expression of her deep connection; and a gift to the world.”

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  • If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her:

1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think.
Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day.

2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
  • Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. 

I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
  • So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • *hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
  • There was a discussion! :) Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
  • Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
  • Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? 

Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
  • If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her:

1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think.
Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day.

2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her: 1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think. Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day. 2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed. You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth. Some people won’t understand your choices. Make them anyway. 3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to. You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness. And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful. Stress causes illness. 4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing. Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it!  Learn to say NO… and YES! 5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful. You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built. And still think: I want something different. Both can be true. 6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are. I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere. Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth. There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things. Don’t lose her. Hold her close. 7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.” Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot. And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining! Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future. It’s happening right now. My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided.  At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder. I wish I’d trusted myself sooner. Protected my peace sooner. Cared for myself sooner.  Respected myself sooner.  So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. 

I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
View Reel on Instagram
@skeinydipping
@skeinydipping
•
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
2 days ago
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
View Reel on Instagram
@skeinydipping
@skeinydipping
•
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
2 days ago
View on Instagram |
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*hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
View Reel on Instagram
@skeinydipping
@skeinydipping
•
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*hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
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There was a discussion! :) Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
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There was a discussion! 🙂 Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
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Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
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@skeinydipping
@skeinydipping
•
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Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
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Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? 

Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
View Reel on Instagram
@skeinydipping
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•
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Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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@skeinydipping
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If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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𝐌𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚 𝐀𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭 | 𝐇𝐞𝐢𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐦 𝐓𝐞𝐱𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬 Luxury Handwoven Blankets 🌏Stories from life & global adventures 🧩Woven into unique collector pieces Explore ⬇️
  • If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her:

1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think.
Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day.

2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
  • Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. 

I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
  • So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
  • *hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
  • There was a discussion! :) Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
  • Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
  • Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? 

Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
  • If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
View on Instagram
If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her:

1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think.
Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day.

2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed.
You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth.
Some people won’t understand your choices.
Make them anyway.

3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to.
You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness.
And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful.
Stress causes illness.

4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it! 
Learn to say NO… and YES!

5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.
You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built.
And still think:
I want something different.
Both can be true.

6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are.
I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere.
Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth.
There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things.
Don’t lose her. Hold her close.

7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.”
Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot.
And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining!
Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future.
It’s happening right now.

My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided. 
At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder.
I wish I’d trusted myself sooner.
Protected my peace sooner.
Cared for myself sooner. 
Respected myself sooner. 
So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self for five minutes, this is what I’d tell her: 1️⃣ You have WAY LESS time than you think. Curve balls can come and skittle you. Embrace and have gratitude for each and every day. 2️⃣ Stop making decisions based on who might be disappointed. You will always disappoint some others. Just try not to disappoint yourself. Your life gets really small when everyone else’s comfort becomes more important than your own truth. Some people won’t understand your choices. Make them anyway. 3️⃣ Your body will eventually make you slow down if you refuse to. You think today is hard to move… when you’re nudging 70… don’t wait until tomorrow to try and move it more! Rest isn’t laziness. And constantly feeling exhausted isn’t just the price you have to pay for being successful. Stress causes illness. 4️⃣ Confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing. Stop waiting to feel ready. Just get on with it!  Learn to say NO… and YES! 5️⃣ Wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful. You can love your family.
Be grateful for your career.
Appreciate everything you’ve built. And still think: I want something different. Both can be true. 6️⃣ Your job is something you do. It’s not who you are. I never excelled at anything. I thought I was going to have a career. It didnt happen. My choices led me elsewhere. Your title, income, productivity, and accomplishments are not your worth. There’s an entire woman underneath all of those things. Don’t lose her. Hold her close. 7️⃣ Stop saving your dream life for “someday.” Do the thing. Wear the bling! Go on the trip. Drink the coffee while it’s hot. And start becoming the woman you keep imagining, or just BE the woman WITHOUT imagining! Because your life isn’t waiting for you in the future. It’s happening right now. My life has unfolded more than I ever could have imagined, but there have been costs which could have been avoided.  At 64, I don’t wish I’d worked harder. I wish I’d trusted myself sooner. Protected my peace sooner. Cared for myself sooner.  Respected myself sooner.  So…they are the things I would tell my younge
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Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. 

I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! 

Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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Yay! You’ve found a space here where you can grab some of my experience l, tips and ideas and use in your upcoming projects. I’m no expert weaver, but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! 

Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
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I’m not an expert weaver, but share a lifetime of creative experience. I may even make you laugh along the way! Come follow to see what I make and grab all the tips and ideas which you may use in your own projects.
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! 
Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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So glad you’ve found here! Welcome! I’m no expert but have a lifetime of experience as an artist, creator and weaver. I share heaps of tips and ideas for your weaving; regardless of whether you’re a newbie weaver or established fibre artist. I often present new ways of approaching your projects. I may even make you laugh! Come follow along and see where it leads your own projects!
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*hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
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*hiding under a pike of yarn! :). Welcome to my space here - where I share my non-expert; but lifelong experience of being a creative. Want to weave? Need some tips and new ideas? Congrats for finding my space! No gate keeping! I’ll share what I know as I weave! I may even make you laugh along the way!
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There was a discussion! :) Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
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There was a discussion! 🙂 Come along and noodle around my space to see the workings of a fun loving weaver.
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Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! 

Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
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Beginning weaving? Sharing my lifetime of creative process here, so you can learn about weaving, spinning and fibre arts; (and a few other life things in the mix!) and not make some of the unnecessary blunders I have! Grab a cuppa, noodle around my space and follow to see tips, ideas and how my projects evolve. I may even make you laugh.
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Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? 

Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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Daunted to by start a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’? Want some direction on how to be more confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving for ideas. Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. 

Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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If you are daunted by starting a project because you don’t want the uncertainty of wasting your time if it doesn’t ’turn out’; and you want some direction and ideas on how to be mor confident starting; then you need to see how other weavers approach their weaving. Pull up a chair to learn and follow my journeys of how I weave each piece, so that you can learn new ways so approaching your weaving.
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