For some reason, I have been asked 3 times in the past week about our son’s accident; and people being inspired by James’ bravery because he is back-packing by himself for four weeks in Europe and recently drove a vintage car from London to Capetown with Max.
I was asked what happened, how he lost his leg, and how we managed….and the best way I could think to answer them was to email them a copy of my story…which I made into an artist book…and was my way to process the three months in hospital after his accident. Perhaps it is time now to share it with others – other than my closest friends…(and yes my friends – you have read this story and been through this ordeal with us as well.)
Please feel free to share James’ story with whomever you think may be inspired by his courage and incredible philosophy and approach to life.
“On November 22nd 2009, three sentences; controlled and direct; sounds uttered through the phone that every parent dreads to hear. “Are you James’ mum? He has been in an accident. You need to come quickly…” This is the moment when our hope and optimism began to be challenged, yet we clung on to them like a raft in a wild ocean……”
Click the link below to continue reading my story about this incredible young man.
Please stand clear of the closing doors_James Accident story with pics_julie stephenson
juliehollandphotography
July 13, 2012
Friend of Tina Bartley here, read your story thinking of my youngest son, how brave your boy must be, and as a mother I could only try to imagine how you felt. I hope your boy has the best future he can have ahead of him
Julie
Julie
July 14, 2012
Hello Julie, Thank you for your kind thoughts. I know we ALL have these situations in our lives. We are no different than any other family. We ALL have to deal with similar situations and we all cope in the same way…. by rolling up our sleeves and just doing what you have to do… and you don’t even think about it when you’re in it. Sometimes though it may be a bit hard to find that little extra ‘bit’ to get thoguth something – and I sensed that by sharing James’/my/our story..it may serve to help others.
I hope your son has as good an outcome as our boy has. I’m not aware of your circumstances sorry. I too wish him well. Yes..as a mum it was pretty ….hmmm… words can’t describe… but also the joy and gratitude that he is still alive without any brain/spinal injuries..and is now travelling by himself either in hostels or castles and mansions in France and Belgium with friends he met on his vintage car rally through Africa with Max earlier this year. James lives life to the fullest… and is truly an inspiration to me… and I wanted to share his story so that perhaps others may also benefit from seeing what is possible.